Sunday, January 25, 2004
My CLOSE BUDDIES, Bestfriends for Lives
My Pals for life
These are my friends that I'm attached to during school days. These are the guys who cared and looked after me like their very own flesh and blood. We're more of brothers and a sister relationship.
My All time Buddy, Sasi. Listening to my conversation ah?
Sasi is a person whom I'm closed to during my secondary school days. He was my senior and in the express stream. My two to three years senior I guess. We used to hog on the phone for hours. And at every exams period, we with the rest of our group, will head on to airport to study. Yeah, Yeah, lame. More of talking and playing the guitar than studying. He's also closed to my family. There's nothing about me that he doesn't know about. We're still in touch to this very day. Hey you!!!! We're a bunch of pals with MRF(multi national friends). There were few Indians, Malays and Chinese and they're all my senior. I never had a problem blending in with either sasi or the rest. They're were very friendly and kind. Helped me out on my studies too. Sasi even thought me to strum the guitar. Have I ever broke it???? If yes, sorry, but it's good that I did. Another great collection for mementos.
Will never forget Airport and it's fascinating stories.
My Best of Pals
This girl is more than I can handle. We're constantly bickering and always disagreeing on things. No idea how we're paired to be bestfriends. I'll call her the 'Great Cina' and she in return will do me the honor of calling me 'Melayu'. No matter how often we argue, we normally patch things up in seconds. She is always nagging at me. ARGGGGHHHH.... I almost stuffed myself with the whole bottle of prosaic and valium. She never leaves me in peace. In contrast to the adverse effect of hers, she's always there for me. Be it when I'm sick or just needing her company, she'll be there to keep me company. Mostly thanks to her companies,I, in the end will end up being deaf. She'll nag and nag and nag. Like a mother hen. I will always try to find something to whittle away from this mother hen. Her concern and care for me is so great that she can in anytime replace my mommy's duty.She knows every details about my life. From Work stress, the BFs, the emos, and the lunatic side of me. That just explains the noise of a chuckling hen.
The great friendship that we shared are the very reason why I should not minus off the great importance she have been in my life. All the time, effort and her sodden shoulders which I contributed. She have been there for me at every time when I needed her. Name the time or the place, she'll be there. I'm never left alone to curb my own feelings. She will always be there for me even when I never called out for 911.
She was also the fren that I will drag to go on dates with guys. I will never go alone on dates with a guy whom I'm going out with for the first time or known for at least 45 mins. This even include when I was starting to go out with my hubby on a first date to watch the movie matrix, she was there. And she's always there at almost every of our outings. A lamppost?? Nah..I feel much safer with her but when we're going out with my hubby they just connected really well. So, my hubby normally will include her to most of the outings.
My Buddy In Smartron
Shi ting, She's my bitching buddy at work. We will bitch abt those who we totally abhor. The way we bitched abt these people, they're end up naked with bruises all over them. She's another nagging buddy of mine. NAG, NAG, NAG. Always telling me to choose the right guys. She was very supportive when I dumped my ex and got on with my hubby. She's all in favor for my hubby. Always putting in gd words abt him which i do realized that my ex was only worth as frens and my hubby is worth a lifetime.
Having lunch with her was the most relaxing moment of the day. We'll normally let out steam. Bitch, bitch, bitch. Wat can we do? As the real bitches are the people that we're bitching abt. Pardon our sins.
Chris, my very close buddy
Haha, and this particular Ah beng is among my favorite buddies. Working under the same roof, with the 'as if' people giving us the itch, the continuous work stress just have to get us cliquing away. He is also my 'ta pao' guy. As, most of the time I am too caught up with work, he'll do the courtesy to buy for me my forgotten lunch. Also, well known by our fellow colleagues, the HOON KI kakis. Whenever stress level was way beyond our sanity,we'll have a kit kat time. With three sticks of kit kat, our level of sanity back in placed. He is another mob tat always, endlessly, constantly opened, to listening to all my twaddle complains,accepting my balderdash moods and thankfully,he have successfully made my fickle minded persona to a limp. Never once he tried to recoil from the baloney me. Thanks beng for sticking to me like glue no matter how much craps and nonsense I was to you.
He must admit one similarity of nonsense that we shared. The late pay cheques. ARRRGHHH.. Been living off by eating grass due to tat. Lucky us, Singapore is a garden city that put us to great advantage. Or else, how can we feed ourselves apart from having our parents to contribute money to us. This is wat I called togetherness in a friendship. Eating long greeny grass together, to suffice our daily meals.
Sha, another buddy
My Changi Nasi Lemak Kakis. No matter how late the clocks seems to be, he'll never turn down on my cravings for nasi lemak. Riding down to my house, then accompanying to satisfy my needs for nasi lemak. He used to have this drag log specially made in Thai or Bali i think.
And he is so meticulous on keeping the drag log of his. The way he washes them, the knitting of the loose hair back to its place and sorts. Never have i seen a guy with such passion on taking good care of his hair. He's is one living example for that.
We got in a distant wen he left for Australia to further his studies and me moving away to a new house. WE lost touch but frens are frens. WE reconciled after my coincidence bumping into rudy the co-owner of ISRIDA. I learnt about his return to Singapore from Rudy. That's when rudy did us both justice by giving Sha my number and giving him all the details about me being married and pregnant. From there, we started keeping in touch. And the greatest gift of all, my hubby was fine over the reunion of me and my good buddy, sha.
My hubby not only is ok over my friendship with sha but he's cool, way cool over everyone of my friends. Both the men and the women. I have to admit that my frens are more of the guys than of the gals. I am a one lucky woman to have the most understanding hubby in the world. The best thing abt us is that we have so much faith and trust in each other. And i, on the other hand knows that no one in this world can ever take the place of my hubby in my life, heart and soul. I truly love him for all that he is. I would never ever do anything to jeopardise this marriage. I will hold on to it with much grace and pride as he's the best gem that i was given as a gift by the Almighty,
Therefore, YA ALLAH, Thanks for my most loving hubby and frens that simply touches my life with so much blessings and happiness that i could ever ask for. I'm truly contented with it all. ALHAMDULLILAH.
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i have to hand it to your hubby gerl. he can surely absords the guys in your life. if it was me, i'll shoot you for sure. be glad you're never mine.
Az(the bandid guy)
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