The Girl from my past came lurking back!

The barbecue? It was great. I had the most wonderful time with both My family and hubby's. Until, my sis in law shocked me. She told me that on Sunday, she received a call from both hubby's and my past. It was the girl whom did so much injustices to me. She told lies and tales about me which were untrue that i was awarded with a reprimanding event by my hubby when we were not dating. ( Want to know about it? Read up on my post on the wedding and stories behind it) She asked for my number. Cleverly, my sis in law refused and passed it to my mom in law. Then they had a conversation. She claimed that her very intentions upon looking me up was to apologize. On what? You finally recalled all the faults? Hell no! Not recalling her faults but to accuse me. Accused me of shooting her off on her web. I tried to recall when i ever did that but failed to remember even peeking into her web. All i know, i was given every details of her defamation on him(she knows who i meant)as an attachment in an email sent by a friend, no a family i should say. Since we're related now after my marriage with my hubby. The thing is why would i shoot when i wanted to hit her hard on her head? Won't that only cost me my point to hit her? I've been letting her say all her ill wishes on her web and did not react on it. From 2003 to 2005. Two years! Two blardy years i maintained my cool. But now, she finally have crossed my border of limitations. Ha! She claimed she was looking for me. When she actually pays visits to my blog and have access to contact me but she had to call upon my in laws instead. What was it for? To do a check on us? What was the real motives to it? She even knows the name to my baby boy and he going for a surgery. Goodness. She is one of my constant reader. Anyways, i would like to let my steam boiling off. So here goes. She lied on many occasions. One of it was being invited to Marina Yusoff's wedding. I am a close pal of Marina and i told her about the invitation. She, bluffed her way to go to the wedding, claimed that she was invited too. Suckingly, when we were at the wedding, Marina doesn't even know this girl or even recalled extending an invitation to her. I was shocked but pretended that i was not at all aware of the above. I am what i am with her. The only pals that she knew at the wedding was few colleagues of hers. Others took no notice of her. I often left her stranded at the table as i went off for a kit kat with few artistes and the back stage pals. I felt sore about her lying to me just to be there but shooked it off. Then, she lied that i was constantly calling her up. When the actual fact that i had to constantly bear all her wails and her cries. Why? Cause the Guy that she was madly in love with but he wasn't, was ignorant of her feelings. There were even times, at 3am i was forced out of the bed to listen to her almost every day bickerings, misadventures and suicide attempts. Did i tell her off? No, i did not. I felt for her. I treated her like a friend until one fine day, i was told that she stabbed me not with a knife but a bloody parang. From that day, i still listen to all her wails and constant complaints but i was smarter now. I recorded every bloody conversations to protect myself. Call me names. I don't care! She was more of an evil than i am. But did i went on broadcasting her faults and proves my innocence? I did not. I just let it be. This was only for my own protection in anycase hell broke loose. Knowing that she is one hell of a good tongue twisting person. arghhh... i rather say this to her. Hello! You want to contact me? sure! Got my mail, msn ? hop on. I'll be waiting. But to tell you the truth, i won't be anticipating to entertain sore pasts. It's history and long gone forgotten but i won't take it lying down on your accusations on my love and calling him names. You guys broken off in December 2002. We started being in touch in January 2003 and hit it off in May 2003. Finally, in October 2003, we decided to get married. There's was never time for us to even recall on you. But you always came knocking on our door. Example. Your constant sms to him telling how great your new guy are, bragging and bored us,almost killing us to death. Then in may 16 2003, you smsed him, calling him names and even threathening his job security. The next day at 3pm, he smsed you to inform of our relationship but what did you say? The big breast with no brains! I called you up at 5pm. Wanted to talked to you but first you hung up then called back, told me that he was one ass of a jerk and treating me like a friend, you asked me to leave him. He's a jerk to you but not to me. Then sms started pouring in on both his and my handphone. When i finally got bored to entertain Barney and his little adventures, i told you to stop smsing me or i shall lodge a report. I warned you three times but You SIMPLY ignored it. And remember when i told you, seeing that he's with me all was taken care. We did it. We reported. But not to start wars. Only to protect ourselves. We even have all the 'kind' smses that you gave us. Even the part where you called him tiny penis and i shoot you off by replying, You called him tiny penis and a mat but lost your so called virginity to him. What was your reply. Yeah what a waste! How would a virgin knows a different between huge, medium , large XXXlarge and tiny penis? Hmm...I still have the dear sms! Stored in my phone. Want me to broadcast the whole sms? Well, i will not stoop that low. Then, after our marriage, you smsed him to express your condolences on our Aruah granny. He did ask how you're doing but afterwards, he told you to kindly delete his number and do not wish to receive anymore of your smses. He even send an mms to you our wedding picture to prove that he's married. Yet again you failed to submit to our request. Weeks later, you smsed him to inform on your leave and was in Singapore. He got angry. For someone whom you claimed was a null in your life, a big mistake, you still have his number saved and stored in your mobile while he doesn't. (At that time, his brother was using the number). You guys exchanged sms on another number. He begged you, pleading to please leave him alone. He doesn't care on your updates. Just wants to live a peaceful life with his family. Not that i was possesive but we all know how ugly you can be. you might just create wars between us. Bear this in mind, We'RE MARRIED WITH TWO KIDS. why should we even give a damn hoot about you? We have better things to do then be a constant stalker on you. Who do you think you are? The Queen of England? Are we getting paid by doing it? No! Only wasting our time on a NOBODY in our life! Then, your posts on him. Ha! Defamation! Ugly words! Girl, you know what happened between him and you and me and you. I won't start launching it here as, what if anyone that matters in your life were to spot on it, it could cost you and I'm not prepared to do it unless needed to. But it won't be on the net. It will be a family conference. Every one of yours and mine. All shall be spelled out. Even the MISCARRIAGE events! You accused me of shooting hoops at you? Please by all means, prove it. If it happens to be that it was never us, all shall be entertained. And i Mean Business! Serious Business! I maintained my bloody cool until few days before hari raya haji, i was awakened by the email that was sent to me. I lodged it to my mom in law to pass the message to anyone of either you or your family members that i was not pleased at what i was seeing and was deciding to take up further actions. Girl, never once i retaliated. You told lies about me, made me to be judged wrongly by others, lied to me and worse, you even called upon him! Did i call you up to create wars? I did not! I simply asked him to settle it with you without implicating me. But now you did! Truthfully, i did not raise the issue on Marina's wedding because i felt glad that you were there with me. I loved your company! I still entertain your calls be it at any hours of the day to listen to your complaints and crying even after you stabbed me. Why? I thought you needed me. I passed the calls(lies) you made on me. You're a beautiful, bright and wonderful gal.You even have won a gem(fiance) in your life. Why are we still there at the corner of your mind? Don't apologize cause i have always forgiven you. Mainly the reason why i let everything past! Just leave us alone. I'm tired and too angry right now. Want to contact me? MSN me. please be more discreet about this. just don't go about gloating on our stupid, childish game of clarifications. Letting every joanna and jones of the net knows who am i referring to and you retaliating to it. Do me a kind favour! I still have my values even if you don't bother about yours. Thanks dear! P.S: I have all the smses, recorded conversations etc. I have been keeping it for TWO YEARS! Please end it soon, so that my family can move on.